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I got your letter the other day. Well, if we met already, then we've crossed paths and probably blind to see you, or maybe woke up a minute late and we didn't board the same bus when our paths were mean't to cross. Your idea of me being a hero probably is wrong. I could be out there doing all heroic staffs but I'm kinda waiting to save yours. You could call me lame at this stage of life I am but I believe the future holds infinite opportunities for me to make it. I am not yet married cause I dont want to give my love to someone else before you. I pile my feelings everyday in a box so I never get to lose them before I show you.
Virgos are natural born patient & understanding people, but some times we go out of our way & try something heart thrilling. We are always curious of what would happen if we did something different from our norm. So your freaky/wild side is something I would like to see how far it can go. I don't need to ask what you are bringing to the table, I understand capricons are ambitious and persistent and those are some of the qualities I look for. I am willing to live with your hard nut crack and perfectionist quality if you are willing to live with my overcritical & fussy personality.
I am a touchy guy, except my hand to run along your hair between my fingers. I love afro hair so I guess this is where I acquired this behaviour. I sometimes imagine being a grandpa with long hair than my granddaughter as she sits on my lap saying to me, "Grandpa, I want my hair to grow as big as yours". I hope you understand I will sometimes be with the boys maybe on a game night or having a beer or two. But still I will always comeback to you. I am a guy of many surprises so I will hide or withhold some 411 just to make sure my surprise is perfect. I hope you have nothing against tattoos cause I think I will have one probably soon. The only problem is that I haven't figured out what I want drawn & where, it has been years since I made this decision & I never fulfil it.
I am a weird guy sometimes. I love cooking but I'm very lazy at it. But be assured when it's a special occasion we are celebrating like your birthday or our anniversary, I wouldn't mind going to the kitchen and maybe pull of a surprise I learned from those youtube tutorials. If I ever burn the kitchen down doing so, blame the lady on youtube who told me to add more oil to the cooking pot or asked me to wait for two hours while cake was baking & I forgot about it while watching a movie or doing something else to make your day special.
Understand I am a mess sometimes, mostly when it comes to arranging things. I will sometimes wait for things to be fully messed up in the bedroom or kitchen so that I can finally arrange it all where it is supposed to be. I will sometimes disarrange the whole place cause I found one thing wrongly placed so that I can arrange it again. Again, remember, I am weird.
I will mostly allow you to be first in things like, boarding a matatu, entering the house having a seat, having the first bite cause I find myself too selfless. I will sometimes pick topics out of random with a hidden agenda of wanting to know what you think about or maybe just to have your view of it so that it may be in my favor when I surprise. It will sometimes be a joke, but by the end I will have gotten my answer and reveal to you later after the surprise. I am a broad person hence I have no specific genre of music I like, when you come in the evening from work & meet a playlist of Hiphop, R'n'B, Afro, don't look me weirdly. I am all rounded & I prefer music that pleases my ears. I will love an artist song & hate his next.
I don't even do celebrity crushes cause I believe no one is ugly, we are just broke. I will not tell you of the crushes I have on someone cause if I did then I made a mistake of marrying you. You are my one true crush. Sometimes I will compliment random people to you even other ladies but that does not mean you look bad. As a man, I love uniqueness & if something stands out, let credit be given where due. I will sometimes be savage (I have tried working on this one lately) to you but in a funny way. Sugar, spice and everything nice might be the daily diet but too much of it will be boring. I dont mind at all you being savage to me.
I love darkness at night, alot. So nights will be sometimes be a light off nights. This has led me to love candles of late. If I have to buy a thousand candles just for you to stop complaining why I always turn of the lights I sure will do so. I love indoor games too, so expect that alot. (Truth or dare). By the way, do you know how to play poker?
I will ask you of one thing, when we have arguements now & then, dont go gossiping about it to your girlfriends without talking to me first. I believe they are not the board of directors to our relationship. It's me and you. So if you feel you are not comfortable about something tell me first and we talk about it before telling your friends. I will be your ride or die, or walk & sick guy. I dont believe in "till death do us part" logic cause even after death, I will still want you.
Sincerely Yours,
Future Husband...



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