Sponsor

This post is from a troubled girl. This sponsor, blessed cliche is getting on my nerves. When you walk in the streets of Nairobi who gets irritated by the full grown women and men begging for money and are not challenged at all or sick. 
That's my view of a lady or guy who has a sponsor how do you sit your ass and wait for a human being like you with same kind of hands as man to work and sponsor you. 
What happened to the achievement one feels when you cater for your bills?? I mean driving your dream car knowing I worked for years for this.. What happened to ethics? Treating someone as means to end being unethical.. 
Above it all this sponsors are someone else man. Some woman somewhere is crying every night over her husband while you having fun with him. Dear sister, girl what come around goes around. Sometime you will want to settle, and those tears and prayers hardly go unpaid for. Be warned!! 
 To the young ladies, some wise person told me, a man should spoil you not take care of you. That guy until he marries you, he shouldn't take care of your bills. No, but he should  spoil you, gift you and all. 
As I conclude, don't get me wrong, am not saying this men shouldn't have money... Brother work, grind, earn, invest, build the empire cause the moment you marry and own her you should start taking care of her. You should be the provider that's your role!!!  While you courting and dating her, spare time and money to spoil her. We all want to be spoilt and we prefer you to be loaded so you take care of us when the time comes.



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  1. Brenda Mwongera31 January 2017 at 01:17

    Nice article as usual and a good advice to girls/women.BT don't you think you are attacking them a little? What I mean is,if i happen to snatch another woman's man,of which isn't good, that man is the one who is supposed to be blamed, unless I used some spell..

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    1. Euty7 February 2017 at 11:32

      I'm not defending any race bt most men tend to be sponsors due to family issues at home,, so they will look for peace outside... bt still they have to take a percentage of the blame coz they know they left their wives, whom they are married to, at home & some with kids...

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