Dear Girl, Lady, Woman,

Am that girl who has never advocated  for gender equality. I believe as women and men we are different. Before you roll your eyes just think of it biologically and physically we are different  right? That's it, we different. 
I mean look at what a woman can do, multi task, nature, persevere. That's what I call strength. 
Looking back to  old days it was beautiful how a woman would  take on tasks without complaining. I mean don't you admire your grandma who would nature her babies to grow in every way? She also woke up early went to hustle and work in the Shamba, she would later get to the house do chores, and still support that man to go work and be there to help him in all. 
👆🏼Right is strength, am not saying a woman to live in the Shamba and all, no. Woman work on your career. I totally believe in a career woman who can work to a CEO. But at the same time you have babies to nature, home to manage and a grown man to take care of.. Yes!!  He is yours to take care of, to support, to encourage. Trust me, if you want a successful  man he is your duty. 
That's the beauty and strength of being a woman. We can multitask ,balance and hold it all. Try to get a man to do all this, something will have to fail. 
Even the Bible says when one finds a wife, you find a treasure. Yes for nothing is as valuable  as a good woman (wife). I believe  how to know she is the one for you, having her in your life should positively bring good things to you. NB: I respect and believe a man is the head. 
Dear girl, lady, woman learn to be a treasure, learn to be strong to hold things up, learn to manage a household, how to nature little ones and your husband, how to support your man, how to take care  of yourself and look good, how to prosper in your career or purpose, how to control emotions and above it all to seek God. Pray, it's the only way to handle  it all. 
Be wife and you will be found!! 
Take on the beauty and strength of a woman. 
Give it your all. In all aspects of life, it's the gift of God to a woman.

From beautiful, great future  wife💕💝




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